Setting aside for a moment those who identify as "versatile", when and why did you choose to identify as a top or bottom? I ran away from an attempted pass when I was 17 years old. But I spent the next 20 years wondering about it and during a situation similar to that time in my youth I said what the hell and accepted the pass, but as a top, and for the next decade or so I topped exclusively. Then I encountered a very powerful woman and began a faily long-lasting affair with her. She was a sexual athelete and we would fuck our brains out in every way imaginable. And then one night she told me she wanted to feminize me, and she did, and we had fun with a psuedo lesbian scene, and some weeks later she said she wanted to fuck me. And she did, with a very serious and expensive strap on, and I was hooked. Which led to me cheating on her with men, which led to our breakup, and I've been a sometimes cross-dressed but always 100 percent bottom since. I recently had the opportunity to top a woman, and while it was pleasant enough, to me at least, it doesn't compare to opening my legs and surrendering myself to a dominant man. The freedom of abandoning all responsibilities while being fucked is highly addictive.



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