Chemistry 101

[dowmass]

Just curious- what is CHEMISTRY, according to you?

I have had folks say - you can suck my dick- and I will top if there is CHEMISTRY.
I have had others say - let us meet and see if there is chemistry.
i am finding it hard to comprehend what Chemistry is. Who defines it- the top or bottom?
I thought the concept of chemistry kicks in after both the top
and bottom have undresses. Maybe I am wrong.

[Neonaught]

I think that "chemistry" in that context mean compatability.

[centillini]

To me, it is that special unity you feel with a person. Like being around them, enjoy there company, that special aura

[DLazguy]

I would say chemistry is how comfortable and attracted I feel with the guy. I've met up with the intention of just getting a bj, but open to more. If I didn't think he was very attractive and the meeting didn't feel natural, I either left or I just let him suck me. When I did feel that the guy was attractive and our initial encounter felt natural, we did more. He stroked me, sucked my dick, rimmed me, and I sucked him.

[Jazminedress]

its the same as meeting people without having sex............if I aint feeling it with them, we aint doing anything else. I have met great looking guys that were an immediate turn off, and decent looking guys I enjoyed being around.

If I am not feeling it, then why ?

[chongster]

If you turn each other on.

[tongueteaser]

I am not really attracted to guys but just like what is connected to it.. I do postings to find a potential cock to suck and all I get is STATS!! or send piccs... I will never post pics.. Im not wanting to date you.. I want to Meet Face to Face and talk a few. That is my only way of seeing if compatible.

[RICKCASV]

Just curious- what is CHEMISTRY, according to you?

I have had folks say - you can suck my dick- and I will top if there is CHEMISTRY.
I have had others say - let us meet and see if there is chemistry.
i am finding it hard to comprehend what Chemistry is. Who defines it- the top or bottom?
I thought the concept of chemistry kicks in after both the top
and bottom have undresses. Maybe I am wrong.

I always meet my hook ups on an adult website. I make it very clear in my profile that I am a bottom only and I only have anal if the chemistry is right. If a man shows interest in my profile and contacts me there will be an exchange of e-mails followed by a phone call where we talk about what we like sexually, what we don't like,, how experienced we are, do we swallow etc. I make it clear that I only really know if there is chemistry for anal when we actually meet up in person. The man has to be fit and have the kind of attitude, body, cock and style that appeals to me. If I feel that we have chemistry and he asks me if he can fuck me I will say yes and if he doesn't do that then I will ask him if he wants to fuck me.

I love giving men BJs. I am very good at it and I always swallow I will not hook up with a man unless I feel we are compatible based on the e-mails, phone calls etc. . I am very selective about who I let fuck me but not nearly as selective if I am hooking up with a man just for mutual oral sex. Giving a man a BJ, having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum is my favorite activity to engage in with another man.