Any suggestions on how to seduce my 24 year old Stepson

**SAW1969** · Feb 18, 2025, 7:30 AM

So I have a major desire to suck my youngest Stepson's cock. I've always had a feeling he was either Bi or Gay as he rarely has a girlfriend and is always hanging around guy friends.

In the last year I've discovered he has an account on Grindr. Infact we have chatted 3 separate times sharing pics of our cocks. His pictures show parts of his bedroom so I know it's him plus when he was online a few times it showed he was a foot away from me.

2 of the 3 conversations were initiated by him. He wanted me to suck his cock and I told him I would love to. A few days after the 2nd Grindr conversation, I was sitting on the couch watching TV. He was upstairs getting ready for work and came downstairs to leave. He comes into the living room and stands there looking at me for a couple seconds without saying a word and leaves the house for work. Not exactly sure what that was all about. I have a good feeling he knows it was me he was chatting with the 2nd conversation on Grindr but not exactly sure. So I sent him some more pics to his account and the next time he was heading out the door I stopped him and told him I sent a couple messages to him, he thanked me and left the house. He hasn't logged back on that Grindr account since our 2nd conversation.

3rd Grindr conversation he used a totally different account when he initiated our conversation. He sent me the same exact pictures to me again so I knew it was him. This time I told him during the Grindr chat that I had sent him a couple messages and told him I told him when he was leaving for work. He said he forgot. He was pretty adamant about getting a face pic of me, I never sent him one. He either has deleted that latest account or has blocked me. His other account is still there but he hasn't been online with it in several months. I have sent a few pics that expire in 10 seconds to him. 1 is of me sucking a cock. Security measures is you can't screenshot any of the expiring pics so I'm not worried he'll show anyone.

He comes home pretty late most of the time normally 1-2 am and if I'm awake I call out is that you ***** he always answers yes. This would be perfect time to suck him off. The wife and I don't sleep together anymore, been 2 years now. I sleep on the couch in the Den.

During the summer I was leaving the blinds open to the den as you have to pass the den windows to get to the front door. I sleep with the TV on so you can see into the room from the outside as you walk by. I've tried jacking off during the times he would be coming home in hopes he would catch me but that hasn't worked yet.

I'm pretty sure he knows it was me he was chatting with after the 3rd conversation. I just don't know how to initiate the conversation with him face to face.
Any suggestions?

**monaohio** · Feb 18, 2025, 9:03 AM

maybe say can i talk to you and he more then likely he will say yes and ask if he is into guys and say you will not say nothing to his mom till he is ready to tell her if he says yes he is into guys then tell him you two can suck and make love to each other anytime he wants to or ready to

**Lucky 61** · Feb 18, 2025, 10:42 AM

You're playing with fire. There are other cocks out there.

**MNBiGuy** · Feb 18, 2025, 10:45 AM

Or have a conversation that you are Bi. And want to explore this and see where that goes…

**biguycancun** · Feb 18, 2025, 12:13 PM

How to seduce your 24 year old stepson? Don't. The old don't crap where you eat applies here big time. The potential of opening up a world of hurt is huge. You don't want to go there. There are other dicks in the world to suck. This one is a terrible idea.

**park ave** · Feb 18, 2025, 1:39 PM

Wow. That's quite a thorny situation, but a tempting and provocative one. A 24 year old, who you already know is on Grindr, living right there in your own house and with his cock for the taking — well, almost for the taking. But I have to agree with Lucky 61 that you're playing with fire. If your wife were ever to discover you and her youngest son in bed together, she may throw you out on the spot.

With that said, if I were in your situation I'd probably take the risk. But the question is how to proceed. Are the two of you ever alone in the house together in the evening? If so, I'd mix a pitcher of cocktails and invite him to have one and sit and watch some tv with me. Turn on a show like Netflix's 'Eric,' innocuous enough on the surface but with a strong closeted-gay subplot. The show could work as a conversational icebreaker. Keep his glass filled. With the alcohol's help and a subplot like that to discuss, you may find yourself on your knees with his cock in your mouth before you know it. And once it's been done the first time, of course, you'll be able to enjoy each other any opportunity you get.

Alternatively, does he frequent any gay bars in the area? If you were to stumble upon him there, the conversational ice would of necessity be broken and you'd be halfway home.

However you choose to proceed, good luck and be careful.

**querty** · Feb 19, 2025, 8:37 AM

Nope Nope Nope. It simply will lead to problems, problems that could be life altering. This is a case of fantasy clouding your judgment

**SAW1969** · Feb 19, 2025, 10:03 AM

I'm thinking I should just keep it as a fantasy. I don't need anymore headaches in my life.

**jem_is_bi** · Feb 21, 2025, 9:51 PM

Originally Posted by Lucky 61

You're playing with fire. There are other cocks out there.

I TOTALLY agree. Really bad idea!
If he knows it was you contacting him, likely he does not want sex with you because he knows it would very likely end very badly for both of you.
That is may be the reason for not responding to you on the Grindr account.

**csreef** · Feb 22, 2025, 7:25 PM

Originally Posted by Lucky 61

You're playing with fire. There are other cocks out there.

You could go from sleeping on a sofa in the den to sleeping in your car. . . Think about it.

**DD788Snipe** · Feb 23, 2025, 4:53 AM

Originally Posted by jem_is_bi

I TOTALLY agree. Really bad idea!
If he knows it was you contacting him, likely he does not want sex with you because he knows it would very likely end very badly for both of you.
That is may be the reason for not responding to you on the Grindr account.

I'll 3rd that. "Danger, Danger Wil Robinson". Your thinking with your little head and not your big one.

**SAW1969** · Feb 24, 2025, 7:48 PM

Ive put the idea to rest. I've blocked the grindr account he was using the first 2 chats we had.

**DD788Snipe** · Feb 25, 2025, 4:51 AM

Smart move.

**Shyguy1376** · Mar 3, 2025, 7:14 PM

Let him “catch’ you masturbating. That how my step-grandpa got me to suck him off. I really can’t say if it was a true accident or if he planned it but it did end up with me sucking him off. I continued to suck him almost every time I visited him and my grandma (about 10-12 times a year) until he passed a couple years ago.

**SAW1969** · Mar 3, 2025, 9:47 PM

Originally Posted by Shyguy1376

Let him “catch’ you masturbating. That how my step-grandpa got me to suck him off. I really can’t say if it was a true accident or if he planned it but it did end up with me sucking him off. I continued to suck him almost every time I visited him and my grandma (about 10-12 times a year) until he passed a couple years ago.

I jerked off in his bed and took pics to match his pics he had sent me. Everything is the same in the pics except my cock and his. Curious what did he say when you caught him?

**Shyguy1376** · Mar 3, 2025, 10:51 PM

Originally Posted by SAW1969

I jerked off in his bed and took pics to match his pics he had sent me. Everything is the same in the pics except my cock and his. Curious what did he say when you caught him?

I was visiting and my grandma was out of town. I went to bed before him and a few minutes later heard porn playing from the living room. Curiosity got the better and I poked my head out the door to see tranny porn on the tv and him stroking his hardening cock. I must have made a noise because he looked over at me and kept stroking. He just smiled and said I was welcome to join him. I was hard instantly and sat on the couch across from him. Listening to the porn in the background and watched him stroke. I was the one the offered by saying that I occasionally liked sucking if he was interested. He nodded , stopped stroking and laid back. I took him in my mouth immediately and heard him moan. I sucked slowly feeling him get fully hard in my mouth, just over 7”. He said my grandma didn’t suck him anymore and rarely even had sex. I just moaned and kept sucking lifting off only long enough to tell him he could cum in my mouth if he wanted. That’s all it took— as I started sucking again he grunted and told me to swallow it all. So much cum for as old as he was, 67 at the time. I pulled off and told him I would suck him anytime he wanted. I sucked him 6 more times over the next two days. He never said if he purposefully got caught. But I sucked him semi regularly until he passed at age 81.

**SAW1969** · Mar 6, 2025, 2:56 AM

Hot!!

**KDaddy23** · Mar 6, 2025, 12:08 PM

My #1 poly wife's 21-year-old son came to me and wanted to (1) know about sex with guys and (2) if I could help him with it. I had a seriously long talk with him about the pros and cons of having sex with guys and, importantly, the shit storm that could happen if I "helped" him, his mom found out, and he really had to think and ask himself if pissing her off was worth it. The thing in my mind was that he's a legal adult and capable of making decisions and, hopefully, I had raised him right in that he'd think first before jumping into something.

The shorter version is we were lovers for two years. I'd suck him off then fuck him and it all just worked until he found a girlfriend and fell in love with her and that was fine because I suspected our deal wasn't going to last very long. His mom did find out and she was mad at me... because I didn't tell her myself but he had told her when they had an argument about something and... life continued on. I'd never given any thought to having sex with him (even though I knew he was fucking my daughter) but I was very good at teaching object lessons, and he was ripe to learn some stuff about (a) sex and (b) the responsibilities that come with being an adult and (c) most important, dealing with the consequences of his actions.

I did realize at one point that had I wanted to seduce him, it would have been easy to do but my point and message here is that if the stepson is a legal adult, he can consent and if y'all were to get into it, just like anything else M2M: Don't get caught. If it were me and I had figured out that it was him on Grindr, me and him would have to have a straight up talk about it and if he categorically denies that it was him, just walk away and leave it alone... but if he owns up to it, well, use your own judgement and think about the consequences of your actions and decide if getting with him will be worth it.

And good luck.