Oral or Anal?

I was slumming through a collection of sites and came across a question common to several, the question being "What do you prefer, oral or anal, and why?" The answers were interesting and in somem cases surprising. My answer, now that I've re-entered the world of tranny sex, is, it depends. When I'm dressed, I want to be fucked, but being a responsible bottom involves a bit of work. Sppntaneous sex isn't going to happen. All the prep work is a true pain in the ass, literally, as is the whole dressing deal. Try standing up from the toilet in 4 inch heels and you'll see what I mean. Anyhow, when en femme, I want my cock out of the equation, except maybe if my lover wants to lick it, but I don't want it hard or erect. The center of my attention is his cock, first in my mouth and then in in my ass, and I will try to give him the best ride possible while feeling the glorious sensations of being penetrated and then the swelling, stiffening and eventually the ejaculation inside me. Could anything be more feminine than that? Of course after all that fun, there's the cleanup, especially the cum dripping from my ass, which may continue for an inconvenient amount of time.

When not dressed I much prefer oral, both ways, me on him, him on me. It can be spontaneous, happening at a moment's notice, with immediate gratification and no great mess afterwards. No great prep. No great worries. And just enough intimacy without any great soul baring emotion. As my British friends say, in, out, Bob's your uncle.

I won't be a spoiler, but you'll be surprised at the numbers. Post your preferences and reasons. It might get interesting.

I learned that anal can't be all that spontaneous unless you start your day with a good cleansing and in anticipation of knowing you're gonna get it. Oral, on the other hand, can be done almost anywhere, usually doesn't take a whole lot of time, and you don't have to do a lot of preparation other than washing your junk. Yes, sir - blow and go works well, avoids a lot of emotional entanglement other than the rush of having sucked cock and having yours sucked. These days, I'd rather not be bothered with anal because I'm no longer of a mind to, as we used to say in the Boy Scouts, be prepared for (a) the hopes of running into someone who'd want to fuck me or (b) hoping the guy I planned to meet would want to fuck me and (c) it sucks to go through all that preparation and... no anal happens.

Oral. All of the way. Next?

I've only bottomed once and have only sucked 5 cocks. Sucking is easier to set up, but I want to do it all. Even though I've bottomed once, we had to be quiet and hold back. I need to really experience another man fucking me the way my ass is supposed to be fucked.

In other words, anal sex can be a pain in the ass because of all the associated activities?

I agree that the prep work for anal is a drag but I do enjoy the end result. Oral is much easier spur of the moment and sucking cock is a pleasure too! I'm pretty much 50-50.

i am a bottom only and my man pussy is always ready for a thick hard cock to go in and i love being naked showing my bald man pussy

I will meet up for oral once in a while when I'm in the mood but most of the time if I'm going to meet up it's to fuck a hot ass. I'm pretty picky so sometimes it's difficult to find what I want when I want it. Plus living in a small town can be a challenge as well

I preffer receiving oral, giving anal.

Both are wonderful.
Prep work can be a bit tedious and annoying, but if you get a decent routine going, eat right, it’s pretty simple to get it to be a daily thing.