Well I have my "go to" probe, 7" long with the top ball being 1.5" in diameter. Then once I get warmed up it's all dependent on my mood, doc Johnson...
Farewell, I too have found a good wife quality woman. At 72 life is just too damn short to be solitary. If you noticed I haven't been on much either....
I've had them and I've had guys fuck me and miss stimulating my prostate; I have a prostate stimulator that, well, it vibrates with differing speeds...
I don't think it's unusual and I believe that it's because once you get to sucking, your focus is on what you're doing to him, which is arousing you...