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  1. Kinsey Scale

    [SIZE=3][FONT=Batang]So I took the silly little internet quiz on “how gay are you?” and it piqued my interest. A little research led me to the Kinsey scale which I have heard of before but never really given much thought to.Yes, I agree with it (and the silly little internet quiz) that we all fall along a continuum in human sexuality and that where ever we fall can change over time. I noted in my research that there is really no“test” per se of any scientific validity for determining where one falls but actually it is up to the individual to determine where they belong on the scale.[/FONT][/SIZE]
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    [FONT=Batang][SIZE=3]So I place myself on the Kinsey scale of zero to six (zero being completely heterosexual and sloping upward numerically to six being completely homosexual) at, roughly, a 1.5 to perhaps 2. No, change that. In all honesty a solid 2 which reads:[/SIZE] “[COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual.” [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]That would be closer to the truth.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]


    [FONT=Batang][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]The term bisexual, as defined to me everywhere I have read on [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]the subject[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3],is to mean “sexual and/or romantic attraction to the same sex.”To me, it is like comparing apples to oranges. [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]B[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]oth [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]similar [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]but...still different. For example: if I am in the mall I [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3][B]do [/B][/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]checkout the female [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]tits,curves, and [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]asses [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]that have [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]any [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]value in being checked out [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]and imagine being with them in not only a sexual manner but a romantic one as well[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].The [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]dude[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]s I [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]all [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]pretty much ignore [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]with disinterest [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]as if they were furniture [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]or light fixtures[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].But having said that, [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]and [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]in the right environment, [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]the sight of [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]an erect penis gives me an erect penis too. [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I own [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I have [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]a [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]physical [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]sexual attraction to [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]my same sex [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]but not in the slightest [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]ever [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]a romantic [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]or emotional [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]one[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]([/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]at least not [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]yet,anyway)[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I have no desires for any candle light dinner under a full moon with any guy.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]


    [FONT=Batang][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]Also important to note the “right environment” [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]qualifier [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]too: [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]It's [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]really [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]the main [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]factor.[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]n a [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]public [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]men's r[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]estr[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]oom,nothing, [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]nada,zilch[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].In a gym locker room and [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]communal [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]shower,nothing, [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]nada,zilch[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].The men remain furniture [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]and light fixtures [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]in those [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]nonsexual [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]context[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]It wouldn’t be that way with women [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3](at least [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I don’t think [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]so [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]b[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]ut [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]then [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I wouldn’t really know as [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I've [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]never [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]had the opportunity to be [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]in a female occupied [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]public restroom or gym locker room and communal shower [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]either[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3])[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]There is a wall in my mind with a door that only certain keys [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]turned a certain [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]precise [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]way will [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]open. [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]Puzzling.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]


    [FONT=Batang][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]A big part of [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]myself classification as [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]being a 2 is personal history: m[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]y very first sexual encounter was a homosexual one when I was about [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]15[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].It started simply enough with a [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]neighbor boy [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]my age [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]in, what I understand, the usual way [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]these things happen[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]:looking at dirty magazines [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]followed by [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]a little [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]experimentation.Just a little mutual [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]touching [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]and feeling [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]at first that eventually lead [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]over time [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]to further activities [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]when we [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]had the chance[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]...but let the record show NO KISSING [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]ever happened [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]because that would [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]have [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]be[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]en [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]queer! Funny now to see the line [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]in the sand [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I drew [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]on that. [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]had no problem with [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]putting my mouth [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]around [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]the head of [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]his [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]dick but not [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]to his lips[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]![/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]Part of t[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]hat wall in my head [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]back then[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3],[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I suppose[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]Crazy [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I know [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]but then I was just a [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]confused,[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]horny [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]teenager [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]trying to figure things out[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3].[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]


    [FONT=Batang][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]S[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]ince that time things have been figured out. It's just a [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]little [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]itch I have, that's all. I hold the scratching [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]of it [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]to a minimum. I [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]figured out and realized the ridiculousness of [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]that kissing taboo thing too.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]


    [FONT=Batang][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]So [/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]there you have it.[/SIZE][/COLOR][COLOR=#000000][SIZE=3]I tally myself in at a 2. You may see it otherwise.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]
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  2. Say Yes..

    [video=youtube;s3NHrDu-O4s]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3NHrDu-O4s#t=37[/video]
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  3. 33, loving life

    hi, my name is johny. im very outgoing and non-judgemental. i like fishing, camping, swimming and sunbathing in the spring and summer months. my favorite type of swimsuit is a thong, i find them very comfy and love the tan i get while wearing one. i like thong underwear to, i only wear guys thongs. i been single since i was 15, its just so hard to find people that are into you.
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  4. New site Idea

    [SIZE=4]I wish I could do some of the things that Drew can do, but I am sure not up to his level with a computer and most likely will never be. If I was I would set up a truly free web site for us older married guys to search for local buddies or ladies to hook up with.
    I have visited so many "free" sites for meeting others I have lost count. After going through all the BS information they want and completing sign up even maybe searching through some profiles and thinking ill contact this person. Only to find they want money to do so. As far as I am concerned those places are nothing but rip offs and are using false advertising to get people to sign up. I just delete my entire profile and remove myself from their mailing lists when that happens. The wife is the bookkeeper for us and she checks every credit card purchase so I cannot use one and would not in any case. I also have signed up seeking a nice older lady that would enjoy some sexual company and then all I get is so called winks or whatever from some darn 20 or 30 year old person . Hell I have a daughter that is 37 and I sure as hell do not want to get involved with a kid. Have the rest of you, guys had this same sort of experience as well or am I just not able to find the correct sites? [/SIZE]
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  5. Kissing a guy is erotic

    I know some bi guys are into different things. And im one of them. I enjoy oral and kissing (not into smokers though). I have swallowed and played with cum in my mouth. The first guy I was with was older and more aggressive and moved to kiss me, I thought no way...but I followed through and it was gentle and very erotic. Even the stubble pressed against my face was nice. I had no idea! The next guy was very shy but sexy. He came over to my place and before we could even say a word, he softly touched my face with his gentle hands and we were frenching. His face was so smooth and mouth was inviting. It was so easy to kiss him and of course, we were both hard as a rock....so I had to drop his shorts and we both started sucking each other! When we decided to kiss again, my sweet musk was on his tongue...it was even better than kissing my wife!!....I lost touch with him which bums me out so bad! I loved kissing him. What is your best kiss with another bi male??
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  6. want a pegging partner in colorado / kansas

    I am a very curious bimale ! We all have our interest's mine is to meet and have a submissive sexual meeting with a Coupel or a Female who is interested in pegging a male . Interested please mail me and let's talk . I am new to the area and am trying to find out what is out here for me .
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  7. Connecting for sex or playtime

    I'm curious. How many people have actually connected with people for a date - for one-on-one sex? Not web discussion, not open discussion, plan ordinary sex between two partners using this site?

    We all seem so far apart from one another that this is just an intellectual discussion site only on the topic of sex. Where are people going, scheduling a date for sex? Meet with new partners -you get the idea.:confused::confused:
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  8. How Often do you C2C with someone?

    It has been my experience that a visual C2C is a lot easier than an endless group of messages.
    Do you cam with only friends or always looking for new friends?
    What programs do you use and how often?
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