[ATTACH=CONFIG]29071[/ATTACH] In ancient Greece and Rome, people knew how to have a good time whenever they met for dinner and party. Just there were no borders or taboos about what they could enjoy together in bed. In threesomes or foursomes or more, the participants just followed the flow and played games together. Then the religious thing came in the middle and sex became a sin for the first time in the western world. Two thousand years later, in the XXI century, after the failed hippie sexual revolution of the late sixties due to economic and political reasons, western societies are starting to venture into some of the many forbidden paths in a scale never seen before. Sex is becoming mainstream in all its great diversity. Many couples are now exploring beyond the framework of the institutional marriage. However, the legacy of the forbidden is still bothering many of us and limiting the possibilities of what we can do together, three, four or more of us in bed. We do believe that some day all the gender orientation taboos will disappear for good like the stigma of bisexuality. Pleasure comes in many ways. Our senses are connected to our mind and the preset framework resides precisely there, influenced by the social taboos still present in our society. This subconscious state of mind is still blocking some of the many enjoyable possibilities available for more than two in bed, like the fulfilling feeling of providing pleasure for someone of the same sex. Yes, being bisexual it doesn't mean being attracted to the same sex, but being comfortable with sex in any way it can provide pleasure to the other partners and yourself. At least this what we believe and therefore willing to experiment something we are beginning to call sex without borders. We are relatively new in this lifestyle but we have noticed that while bisexuality among our female partners is something considered normal and even sometimes desirable, that's not the case for the male participants. Many men are still avoiding the contact with another male when in bed with women. This we found to be very ridiculous if not hilarious seeing the awkward positions some men take to stay away from the other same sex partners in bed. However, the reality is that most men are currently exploring this path of truly free sex without saying it or explicitly telling in their profiles. Preferences will always exist but it doesn't mean to deny other possible interactions when having group sex involving same sex partners. In summary, we would like to hear what the community has to say about knocking down the walls and trying truly liberating new experiences of sex without borders.
Updated Aug 4, 2014 at 2:45 PM by Nakedfun3
I am currently living in South Korea and I am a gay man. When I realized that I am attracted to guys and became confident fully about my true sexual orientation, I started looking for men who want to date with me. But apparently so many gay men that I am attracted to, and who have normal manly appearance, weren't attracted to me at all... I was really frustrated. I couldn't stop thinking that I am going to live alone forever. Yeah, I know I don't have masculine looking,and super fit body. However, I was fully sure that I have androgynous beauty with feminine figure ( I'm kind of skinny) and feminine face shape. And of course, I've heard a lot that I look like a girl and I look pretty. So I am sort of self-confident about myself. However, those gay guys that I found interesting just love someone like a manly masculine, super fit, short haired guys. So I wasn't on their list. Then I tried to fix my appearance something more like masculine. I changed my hair into a very short cut ( Usually I have very long hair), and tried to act like a man . But seriously that wasn't me at all just at all !!!!. So I stopped doing the crap out of it. Then one day I met a bisexual guy who likes the way I am and my feminine-appearance-in-a-boy thing. He was a English teacher in my hometown, and a high-educated person. He was quite good looking, and calm, careful and super smart which I like most. But we didn't go well because he didn't want any kinds of serious relationships. But we had have sex quite often and I was happy that I can make someone aroused sexually and be a person who is attractive. But since then I have never met any other guys like him. So I just wander now that the man was the only person who was attracted to me and no one else may not like me in the future. I am just curious and want to have a hope for my love future. Are there some guys who find attractive from people like me?
Hello, we are a new married couple to this site, we are bi-curious and wildly imaginative sexually, we like to role play when we go camping and travel, we both like to wear panties and skirts
Warning: rant. For the last month, I have been visiting this forum to try and gain some perspective and understanding of my husband's bisexuality. And it needs to be said: those of you that lie and cheat on your wives need to stop. I was terrified that my husband was either doing this, or will do this, because there are SO many of you that do this, and have no qualms about it. You may think you are protecting your wife. You may think you aren't hurting anyone because she doesn't know. You are lying to yourself. Take it from the straight spouse: we need to know. Will she be angry? Hurt? Absolutely. Will your marriage end? Quite possibly. Tell her anyways, she deserves to know. Love means respect and HONESTY, and sometimes honesty hurts. Stop being cowards. Stop disrespecting your wives. Cheating is cheating, you don't get a pass because it's with a man. If your wife doesn't understand, then she is not the right person for you, and that's life. You pick up the pieces and move on. But she deserves MORE than what you are giving her right now. She deserves a partner who loves her enough to tell her the truth, and she deserves a partner who is not afraid of her or the unknown. Reading about how so many of you deceive the woman you supposedly love has made it monumentally more difficult to believe that my husband and I will make it, that he loves me, and is still him. For those of you cheating on your wives and bragging about it on the Internet, you give all bisexuals a bad name. So just stop. You want LGBTQ equality? Then stop perpetuating negative stereotypes, and stop cheating on your wives. (This also pertains to women, but the number of stories I have read from men vastly out weight those from women)
My husband n I r lookin for a girl to join in on some fun if interested hmu
It was a crazy time. I was approaching the half way point in a 27 city tour searching out sites for upcoming summer of rallies. I climbed off the plane in Greensboro, NC and proceeded to the auto rental counter. The clerk greeted me cordially and asked my name. Gave him my drivers license, signed papers, and was on my way, not even suspecting what the day held. I climbed into the car and headed off to Ramada Inn, near the airport. Checked in, put my luggage in the room. Went for some lunch in the hotel restaurant. The group I was meeting with was located some 30 miles west of Greensboro, and wanting to spend as much time as I could with them, headed out early. I arrived some 40 minutes later, had a terrific meeting and pot luck dinner before heading back to the motel, sleep, and the next plane ride the next morning. I tried to sleep. I just could not sleep. Got up, took a nice warm shower, rolled a washcloth up to resemble a cock, covered it with a condom, slowly worked it into my ass as I masturbated. Had my orgasm, climbed back into bed and waited for sleep to take over my tired and relaxed body. Sleep still evaded me. Next alternative, some liquor. So I dressed and headed to the motel's bar. Taking a seat at the corner of a "U" shaped bar, ordered a screwdriver. There was what appeared to be a businessman sitting across the corner from me and we began to chat. At this point I honestly had not begun to think sex. I began to feel that he may be prospect as we chatted. Fate stepped in with the arrival of another gentleman, young, more handsome and the "gaydar" sounded inside my head. He joined our conversation and the original chatter, excused himself and left. I chatted with the second guy a few minutes, while I finished my drink. Set the empty glass down, started to rise from my seat, looked him in the eye and said, " I'm going to my room, would you like to join me?" As we entered the room he immediately dropped to his knees and reached for my zipper. I told him he could suck it, but there was nothing for a reward as I had jacked off in the shower a short time ago. He still took my cock into his mouth and sucked it straight down his throat. I enjoyed his talents, but what I really wanted and needed was to be totally and completely fucked until I figuratively was knocked out. After a few minutes of watching his head bob up and down on my, now hard as a rock cock, I stood him up as we started to undress each other. Once naked we moved to the bed as we were playing with each others balls and hard cocks. I reached into my overnight bag and took out some lube and a condom. He took the condom and started to roll it over my cock, I held his hands and told him, " NO, put it on you. I NEED to be fucked, and fucked hard." I watched in anticipation, my asshole puckering over and over with the thought of him inside me. There is something so very, very special when you take a man inside your body. We kissed. I worked lube into my very horny ass in preparation of his entrance into my now "throbbing" hole. I straddled his hips. Kissed his lips, as I lowered myself onto his cock. No pain, no strain, one move and he was deep inside me. I could only guess his length, somewhere around 6 inches, but it was sooo beautifully thick. He filled me with what I really needed and wanted. He fucked me, virtually non-stop for about 20 minutes...pausing now and then to let things cool off a bit. For my part, I was having the most magnificent fuck of my entire 45 year life. Every stroke made love to my prostate. My cock was swinging and bouncing in every direction as I drove down on his cock as hard as I could. I wanted every inch, every square inch of cock skin to caress my insides. We both were having trouble breathing as we worked toward a climax. I leaned in and gave him another tongue sucking kiss and to my surprise, I came. Shooting cum up along his stomach and I felt some hit me. That did it for him. I felt his cock swell to what felt like twice it's size and then the cum started to flow deep inside my hot ass. It was strange, I wanted more. I was ready to try for seconds, or ask if he had a friend who could come and fuck me more. But, he begged off both parts, saying he had to get to work early the next day. A very proper kiss between us and he quietly closed the door as he left. I slept. Boy did I ever. The next morning, I found great pleasure in clenching my buttocks and feeling the delicious soreness that comes from being well fucked.
I have to tell you, my husband and I were best friends before we dated and married. Then a while ago my husband began sneaking around with men and it damn near ruined our marriage. When I found out I was devastated. Not that it was with a man, because I'm bi and have a large LGBT group of friends, but that he thought he couldn't tell me AND he felt the need to cheat on me to get this "extra fun". We have worked thru it, and plan on enjoying this together, the way it used to be, the way it always should have been. It's the same reason we won't accept men that are "on the down low" (aka cheating). If you can't be yourself 100% with your mate, you're either not putting enough faith in them or you're with the wrong person. JMO
[B]Third night all alone and one night left. I'm in a strip Hotel and looking for simple cock play with no luck. Craigslist sucks. What do I have to do...... [/B]