[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]It's a parent's worst nightmare to think that their offspring are "experimenting" with sex with each other which, when you stop to think about it, is likely to happen since parents are tasked with the responsibility to keep their children away from sex with other people until they're deemed to be old and responsible enough. Laying down the law has to be done and it's expected that these growing, curious, and hormone-driven fruits of our loins are going to obey and not even go there. Many don't... and many more do. They not only discover the wonders of sex, it also uncovers their sexuality as well. Toss in the taboo of homosexuality - which has two purposes - and, again, those who inacted the taboos probably didn't think that the rules and punishments would be totally ignored and in favor of the biological imperative to have sex and especially among males. Your sister might be "off-limits" for sex... but your brother? Well, he's off-limits by rule but there's a reason there's a "hidden" meaning to the saying, "Boys will be boys." [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]It's one of the biggest taboos of all time. To merely think of it can either be highly exciting or so troubling that vomiting may occur. It was put in place at some point in our history due to birth defects, some not easily noticable and some horrifically so. So if a guy were to screw his sister and knock her up, there's no telling what's gonna happen other than her giving birth. Thus, it made sense to morally outlaw this behavior and it still does although I've read some stuff that suggests that a lot of children are born with birth defects that aren't due to environmental issues, like pollution; it's because our DNA, as a whole, is way too much similar and to the point where a guy and a gal having sex - and they're not related by blood - can wind up with a baby with some serious issues because even though our gene pool has been quite diluted over our existence, there are still a lot of combinations that can cause this issue. Okay... enough of the science lesson on this... but the history lesson continues. There's a loophole in the law of it and one that was probably exploited before humans even began to understand sexuality: Men can't get men pregnant any more than a woman and impregnate another woman. Likewise, if a male family member has sex with a female family member, hmm, as long as the sperm isn't spilled in the vagina, no pregnancy, no harm, no foul. It's suspected that these loopholes were uncovered and the rule of law against the I word was turned into a blanket: If you have sex with someone in your immediate family, you've just committed a terrible offense. Manmade laws got to be more... specific. A brother and sister cannot marry - it's a "given" that they're going to have sex and have children - and first cousins aren't allowed to marry - too close to the familial gene pool but second and third cousins, okay - they can marry and have children due to a determined "distance" from the primary gene pool. So with the moral and legal stuff laid down, I dunno, maybe it was decided that the matter was settled... but humans don't really work like that. I guess they thought that no one would discover the loopholes or that the various threats to one's life would be enough to dissuade anyone from testing the loopholes. And they were wrong. [/SIZE][/FONT]
There are videos of men and women coming on to a plumber, pizza guy, etc. Have you had a service person come to your place and you fantasized about doing them? Or even better, have you actually done something with one? Or maybe you are a service person with a true story?
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]And, yes: I have handed out a few very bad beatdowns on those who thought they could, first, bullshit me and then try to flip the script on me and make me do what they wanna do. By and large, I tend to ignore these kind of guys... but it still gets on my nerves. I am by no means a submissive bottom and, no, I am not saying anything bad about anyone who is. But, um, what part of, "I'm a top, too!" don't they understand? Am I speaking a foreign language when I say, "Nope - you're not gonna fuck me" and you didn't understand it? Why do some of these guys think I'm the one who's fucked up when they tell me how they're gonna make me get on my knees and suck their cock and get my throat fucked... and I've made it clear that they're gonna be on their knees sucking my cock? I have been of a mind that one should never ask a man to do something that they, themselves, are unwilling to do. You want me to blow you... but you don't suck cock? See ya later and thanks for coming. You wanna dump a load of cum in my ass... but you're not gonna submit to having the same thing done to you? Ain't gonna work, homey. Yet, there are a lot of guys who really believe that it should work like that and without exception and because they said so. I just can't think of any way guys like this can be more disrepectful and it continues to amaze the fuck out of me when they get offended and feel disrespected after they've offended and disrespected me. Like the one guy who "made it clear" that he was gonna make me suck his dick, bury it in my ass for a few, pull it out, and make me suck it. And I "made it clear" that if he even tried to make me suck his dick, he just might wake up in a hospital bed and wondering how he got there. Such shit not only disrespects me as a person, it disrespect me as a man. Homey don't play that. Ever. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I've been trying to get my head around this for a long time now... and I'm no closer to being able to explain why this happens other than there are a lot of guys who just believe that they're the man in this and all other guys are just their bitches to take any way they fucking feel like it and you have no choice but to comply to their demands. It's even assumed that all guys into M2M suck dick and get fucked which, of course, isn't true at all. Like, one guy told me that when I come over - and I never even implied that I would - the first thing I was gonna do was to eat his sweaty asshole. I said, "Nope - ain't into that and ain't doing that." And he went off on me, telling me what I'm supposed to do and some other shit that, if we had been face to face, I would have hurt him badly and, as it was, the whole time he was bad mouthing me, I was thinking of the many ways I could fuck him up. Which, of course, is why I have an "asshole test" and why guys who behave like this always fail it. Many seem to forget that I'm just as much a man as they are and many tend to find out that I have a really nasty temper when it gets riled up. What, you really think you're gonna make me do something I don't want to do? Oh, I'd love to see you try it... and I hope pain is something you enjoy." Actually told a guy that once and he actually had the nerve to tell me, "That's not the way this shit goes!" Really? It reveals what can be a fatal flaw in the thinking some men have about this and often tells me that they don't know as much about this as they think they do. Many think they're so alpha and macho that any other man has no choice but to comply and submit to them... but I'm not one of those guys. I know how to say no... and I have the muscle, skill, knowledge and very evil other side to enforce it. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]My protege tells me about the number of guys who, nicely or really rudely, tell him to get his ass to them so they can fuck him good and hard... and my protege is a top. I can count on one hand the number of times he's bottomed for someone and I don't have to use all five digits. Sometimes he ignores them or, like me, he'll come back with, "Sure... I'd love to feed your ass my cock!" and the other guy gets ghost in a hurry. He shows me profiles - and I've seen my share of them - where guys arrogantly let you know that they're gonna fuck you and they pretty much don't care if being fucked ain't your thing and some have gone as far as to question how manly he - or I - ain't because, um, I'm just as much of a top as the asshole demanding that I have to bottom for him or I'm not really a man. It's the thing that has made me wonder, "What happens when two tops try to hook up?" and then answer my own question: "Nothing..." and more so when the roles of top and bottom have been so rigidly defined and adhered to. "Everyone" knows that tops don't take the dick - they give the dick. A lot of tops do not and will not suck dick - that's the bottom's job and even if the bottom in question doesn't suck dick. And I've gotten those guys who go on and on about how I'm gonna suck their dick for a long time before taking it in my ass... and I'll say - again - "Is that before or after I do the same thing to you?" And, oh, my goodness, do they ever get offended! And what really bakes my noodle is that even after I make it clear that I'm just as much of a top as they are, they insist that I can't be what I know myself to be - I have to be what they want me to be. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]...that gets on my nerves are those guys who just assume that our whole reason for talking is so they can shove their dick in my ass... and then get all pissy when I don't "jump at the chance" to get dicked down. The whole top/bottom thing has gotten... shit, I can't even think of the right word. I remember when I first and really encountered the top/bottom thing when some guy asked me if I was a top or a bottom... and he actually had to explain it to me because I'd never heard such a thing before that moment. After he explained it - and I thought about my own behavior in this - okay, I was very versatile growing up and remain conditionally or situationally so but if "forced" to choose one or the other, okay - I'm a top. What gets me shaking my head is when another top gets told I'm a top... and he still insists on me being a bottom for him and when I tell him that ain't gonna happen, well, ain't I all kinds of fucked up? Some dude will start telling me how good he's gonna fuck me (yeah, uh huh, right) and then he starts feeling some kind of way when I ask him, "Is that before or after I fuck you? Because if you think you're gonna get away without getting fucked, you got the wrong guy." And they get really pissy and vanish into the night, never to be seen or heard from again. And I really don't know why there are so many guys who think they can fuck any guy they want to and regardless to the other guy's preferences. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]After a while, I just gave up trying to figure this one out. I came to the conclusion that people go from straight to bi because they want to but it's easier on their minds to think that they were "made" to be bisexual and trying to get to the bottom of things was pretty much a waste of time since a lot of folks who did this couldn't really explain why other than, "It seemed like the right thing to do..." or something along those lines. We were with a couple one night and the other woman was sucking me and I said something like, "Yeah, suck my dick!" and the next thing I knew, her man was sucking my dick! Later, his excuse was, "Well, you told me to!" and I had said, "But I wasn't talking to you!" Miscommunication? A misunderstanding? Heat of the moment? Or did he do what something inside of him told him to do? I didn't know. But I was still pretty sure that you can't make someone bisexual unless they want to be... even if they're not aware that they wanna be. [/SIZE][/FONT]
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