Anyone have a preference for feminine trans vs masculine male?

[allmyassbelongtocock]

I've been a pretty masculine male all my life, but I've always felt feminine on the inside. When I have sex, it's to please the person I'm having sex with. It's not really about myself getting off. When I'm with a woman, they feel the same way, so I cum for them. When I'm with a man, however, after they cum, they don't really seem to care if I cum, so I rarely, if ever, do (except on rare occasions when they want me to cum).

I've really been contemplating transitioning (but keeping my breasts small, and my cock), but before I do, I'd like to ask what most people who are bi-inclined, what they prefer.

I guess this is more of a question for tops. Would you be more into masculine male, or a feminine trans?

[GreenFedora]

I have a predilection for effeminate men, but by no means do I limit myself to them. I'm a pretty regular guy not aggressively masculine in appearance or demeanor. I just admire them for being themselves when for so long they had to suppress those mannerisms due to societal convention and in some ways still exists. I remember growing up being attracted to them precisely because they were "forbidden fruit."

Good luck with your journey.

[Roddmann]

I really prefer masculine men, but I’m still turned on by feminine men. I have thought about this for some time and I would consider myself a bottom but also a top. I have done both and had a blast. If I want pussy give me pussy, if I want cock give me cock. Enjoy both worlds!

[dowmass]

I really prefer masculine men, but I’m still turned on by feminine men. I have thought about this for some time and I would consider myself a bottom but also a top. I have done both and had a blast. If I want pussy give me pussy, if I want cock give me cock. Enjoy both worlds!

Is there a clear definition of "Feminine" or "Masculine" men? Is there some way to describe one or the other - when in bed?. I have always been curious to know this,

[zbi73]

Feminine Trans doesn't do much for me :(

[Tight1-4u]

my regulars that I service are very masculine married men.. being sub bottom I love them for who they are.. But I fantasize about being gang fucked by a bunch of feminine shemales.. bucket list stuff..

[Roddmann]

I’m not sure I can really define it. I guess I would consider someone who was a top only more masculine. I had a friend that loved to top me but he didn’t like anal performed on him. We figured out if he rode me it was much better for him and I got to stroke him as he did. I guess both of us were a combination of the 2. The reason I say I prefer masculine is I catch myself looking at more and more bear and older men videos.

[playful808]

I have met several truly femme guys who were basically bitchy, high maintenance.
I prefer guys who are masculine, or just a regular normal guy like myself.

[Biwolf]

Probably a feminine trans, though I prefer masculine Men to feminine Men.

[KDaddy23]

The first time I had sex with someone going through the transition from male to female, it was a major shock to my system; she had tits... and a dick... what the fuck? It's one thing to hear about such people, something entirely different to find yourself naked with one and having mad, crazy sex. If nothing else, this experience taught me to not have a preference other than preferring to have sex with anyone who wants to have sex and if they have tits and a dick, okay - I can work with that. I admit that effeminate men make me insane; I don't hate on them or anything like that but I understand it's just me and my perception that if you're a man, you should always behave like one even when you're having sex. I feel this way... and I've learned to ignore it because it doesn't make sense to discriminate in this - so I don't. I just prefer to have sex with anyone who wants to - male, female, or both.

[SlowNEZ]

I can easily go both ways here: To me, there is nothing more exciting than having an attractive guy that wants to get sexual with you? It will not matter to me whether he wants to be treated as a woman or a man during our activities. I will gladly accommodate him either way. Versatility is my motto. The attraction is key to me.

[borntosuckcock]

I like a man’s man that will force me to my knees and mouth fuck me until he cums.

[imariver]

I'm definetly into feminine guys.

[JSX1575]

Feminine trans or feminine CD men. They make me melt. I’m NOT into hairy men. I find some built men attractive but they would have to be completely shaved and not too bulky.

[chargersfan]

Feminine trans or feminine CD men. They make me melt. I’m NOT into hairy men. I find some built men attractive but they would have to be completely shaved and not too bulky.

I’m the same ... Hair is a big turn off for me also feminine for both for me and I would say I have a big inner feminine side trying to push out.

[19biman61]

If I am going to bottom then I prefer a masculine male but if I am going to top then I prefer a feminine man or trans. That's just the way I am.

[Footstep40]

I’m a bottom only, my weakness is masculine, scruffy man with a “dad bod”. So, yes I find a few extra pounds incredibly sexy.
Im not anti-trans, I get the attraction of being & and being with one. Just doesn’t make my blood flow any faster for some reason.

[Jazminedress]

Foe me, just not hairy, dont know why, just bothers me....................especially face and chest.

Doesnt mean new born baby clean, just no Burt Reynolds circa 1970

[Jazminedress]

The first time I had sex with someone going through the transition from male to female, it was a major shock to my system; she had tits... and a dick... what the fuck? It's one thing to hear about such people, something entirely different to find yourself naked with one and having mad, crazy sex. If nothing else, this experience taught me to not have a preference other than preferring to have sex with anyone who wants to have sex and if they have tits and a dick, okay - I can work with that. I admit that effeminate men make me insane; I don't hate on them or anything like that but I understand it's just me and my perception that if you're a man, you should always behave like one even when you're having sex. I feel this way... and I've learned to ignore it because it doesn't make sense to discriminate in this - so I don't. I just prefer to have sex with anyone who wants to - male, female, or both.

Its not being discriminatory, you simply like what you like, dont like whaty you dont like.....................no issue there.

Some like blondes, some like brunettes, and some of us risk our lives and with redheads, doesnt mean you hate, just have a preference

[KDaddy23]

For me, it's not so much of a preference as it is my understanding what this is really all about and understanding my own quirks - then learning to set them aside so I can enjoy the great diversity that sex and intimacy brings to the table. Masculine guys... effeminate guys - doesn't really matter as long as they're willing to engage and be intimate and I've learned that having set in stone preferences tends to make me miss out on the possibilities to experience sex and intimacy or, as I've learned - and sometimes, the hard way - as long as you're not my idea of an asshole, we can probably do something - let's talk about it. Like, I had this very stupid thing against uncut dicks - they're just ugly as anything I've ever seen - and it took me a very long time to get that out of my head and suck an uncut dick - and then some time kicking my own ass about all the uncut dicks I could have sucked - and didn't - because I had a preference that didn't really make any sense.

Which is why I do not have a "type" of guy I prefer to be with. Be clean and healthy; have a dick that works; be of legal age to consent to sex; don't be my idea of an asshole. Straight, bi, gay - ultra masculine or flaming so much I can get sunburned - even those individuals who keep their cocks and add on a nice set of boobs. If you can meet my "criteria," we can get naked and enjoy each other.

[Robtiti]

Both for me.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I can enjoy either, but I'll always be assuming a feminine role with my partner, at least in the way I dress -- it's what I love! :bigrin:

I adore playing with other gurls, and also love being the focus of a masculine man's desire, too!

[Cumseeker]

Whether I'm with a fem-tran or all-man type my interest is in that cock. A fem-trans without one doesn't appeal to me at all. I want to suck cock, swallow cum, and after a little rest I want that cock fucking my ass and cuming again. Now an all-man type married to a hot woman sucking and fucking as a pair with me is something else again. I'll eat that pussy while he fucks my ass, and if I can get a hard-on (a prostate operation often prevents that; but Viagra helps sometimes) I'll enjoy fucking her, especially if he is fucking me at the same time or if I am sucking his cock at the same time.

[Cumseeker]

Put me down as a silky hose lover, too. I began dressing in mommy's clothes at age nine and have dressed off and on ever since. I'm an old man now and still keep an attache case with heels, hose, and a couple of dildoes in it.

[LingerieandLace]

As for myself, I have been, like most normal masculine men, most of my life. Now I am still, a normal acting masculine man, in public, but I have grown to love wearing feminine Lingerie. I have always felt, somewhat feminine on the inside. When I do have sex, it is to please the person, I am having sex with. It is not always, about myself getting off. When I am with a woman, they feel the same way, so I do my best to please them as I go down on them and often they do reach a great organism and most women, often do not really seem to care, if I would like to cum and I feel they should also consider sucking my cock, and allow me to also cum or reach my own organism!

For me hair is a big turn-off for me and maybe, it is inner feminine side taking over, but I also prefer a nicely shaved pussy for most women and a smooth shaved cock for males. I find that, I now enjoy wearing feminine Lingerie and I do wear it 24/7. So,I do enjoy most effeminate men, but by no means, do I limit myself, to them. Keep in mind, by the time we get to sex, usually most clothing is removed. As I had said, I am a pretty much a regular guy and I am not aggressively masculine, in appearance or demeanor. I just admire that person for being themselves.

When I am with a man, it is usually for mutual oral pleasures and I do my best to please them, as I go down on them and sometimes I will still be in my panties, bra, and hose and he is buck naked and if he has a problem with my Lingerie I will remove all mine, but to be honest in my experiences, he would rather I stay dressed in my Lingerie, while I suck him off.
Usually I will go first and suck his cock until he explodes and fills my mouth with his warm load, after a few minutes, I would expect him to reciprocate, and allow me to reach an organism also and I will usually remove my own Lingerie before he starts!

[SilkyHoseLover]

I would expect him to reciprocate, and allow me to reach an organism also and I will usually remove my own Lingerie before he starts!



I was with you 100% until this last line. Now the percentage drops a little. Like you, I prefer remaining in my lingerie. But if it has to come off, I love it when my playmate undresses me. It's a lot more fun than stripping it off, myself!