Late in Life for a change

[gmr2017]

I got started late in life. 64 yo when I realized that my sexual desires could be fulfilled by other men. MWM with no sex is not good.

[Long Duck Dong]

lol hugs and welcome to the world of MwM sexual fun and adventure....


Its never too late for a change, its only too late when you can not enjoy the new experiences the change will being... and you have a lot of catching up to do with MwM sex, you better get started lol
Shame I lived in new zealand or I would be a willing helper lol....

[softheart]

I got started late in life. 64 yo when I realized that my sexual desires could be fulfilled by other men. MWM with no sex is not good.

There are some things to consider.

Are you married?
Kids, grandkids.
Do you belong to social clubs, Elks, etc.
Do you have a lot of friends?

Regardless of what you read, coming out is not always as smooth a "no harm, no foul" undertaking as the media tells you.

If you are single, my advice is to keep it on the down low. You can find a partner you can pal around with in a way that no one would suspect, let alone ask. Like someone who has been on the down low for years.

[csreef]

lol hugs and welcome to the world of MwM sexual fun and adventure....


Its never too late for a change, its only too late when you can not enjoy the new experiences the change will being... and you have a lot of catching up to do with MwM sex, you better get started lol
Shame I lived in new zealand or I would be a willing helper lol....

I'll second what LDD said !:impleased

[Bisexual Explorer]

I had my first MM sex in my mid-twenties and waited another 35 years before my second time (through this site). I think of my bisexual life starting when I was 60. I've learned not to look back - coulda, woulda, shoulda. I've also learned that focusing on the past gets in the way of living today and having great sex with men. I hope your journey is as successful as mine has been.

[ChiefH]

I feel your anguish!! I have kept my Bi feelings locked away for many, many years!! But I am to the point now I want some sexual gratification with another man!! My wife of almost 48 years has no desire to have sex with me!!! But she is so fucking nosy, and sticks her nose into what I'm doing every minute of the day it seems like!! So I will keep my feelings locked away!!! I have 3 boys and 6 grandchildren also to think of!!!

[WMassM4M]

Regardless of what you read, coming out is not always as smooth a "no harm, no foul" undertaking as the media tells you.

If you are single, my advice is to keep it on the down low. You can find a partner you can pal around with in a way that no one would suspect, let alone ask. Like someone who has been on the down low for years.

Very true. I've known a few cases like that. Thinking of a friend who was a 'pillar of the community' type of guy. President of the Chamber of Commerce, President of the Lions Club, VP of the Life Underwriter's Assoc. Everyone in town knew, and liked him UNTIL his sexuality became known. Then, the same people who had respected him completely shunned him. It was pretty sad to see him at functions, standing alone and his former acquaintances giving him a greeting nod. Unless you are willing to accept the possibility of a 180 degree life change, I'd be cautious about making your business known. The news that grandad likes the cock spreads like a California wild fire.

[travelmanNW]

Hi everyone I started sucking cock again when I was 62 after my wife passes away. I sucked some cock when I was younger. I enjoy sucking cock and would like to have more experience as a bottom. I agree with the rest of you better to keep on the down low. I told my first wife about my cock sucking experiences at first she got turned on and the next thing she was divorcing me and told the world I was a cock sucker. So I'm very discreet would love to just have a buddy to hang with.

[Oldguy81]

First guy when I was 76. I am now 81. Had a one nighter with college roommate. To drunk to remember much. Then great marriage with great sex. Lost wife to Alzheimer’s several years ago. Met guy on beach in Hawaii. We exchanged blowjobs. Have suck two more. Found it turns me on.

[GayGuy04]

First guy when I was 76. I am now 81. Had a one nighter with college roommate. To drunk to remember much. Then great marriage with great sex. Lost wife to Alzheimer’s several years ago. Met guy on beach in Hawaii. We exchanged blowjobs. Have suck two more. Found it turns me on.

Well good for you :thumbu:

[Tag200]

First guy when I was 76. I am now 81. Had a one nighter with college roommate. To drunk to remember much. Then great marriage with great sex. Lost wife to Alzheimer’s several years ago. Met guy on beach in Hawaii. We exchanged blowjobs. Have suck two more. Found it turns me on.

thanks for sharing, I like it

[csreef]

First guy when I was 76. I am now 81. Had a one nighter with college roommate. To drunk to remember much. Then great marriage with great sex. Lost wife to Alzheimer’s several years ago. Met guy on beach in Hawaii. We exchanged blowjobs. Have suck two more. Found it turns me on.

Right on! :flag1::flag3::flag1:

[cleves]

I sucked my first cock when I was 70. In the last 5 years I have sucked around 15 different cocks, most multiple times. Once you start sucking cock, it's so very hard to stop.

[ClassicPaCpl]

Welcome and good luck!!! Your never too old to try new things. Just be careful, safe and discrete

[KDaddy23]

One of "life's mysteries" is how and why guys get into their 50s, 60s, and even 70s and getting some dick makes all the sense in the world and even if the guy has never had a single thought about it before. I've been of a mind to think that for such guys, turning to men is "better than no sex at all" and is better than jerking themselves off.

[ajr12002]

One of "life's mysteries" is how and why guys get into their 50s, 60s, and even 70s and getting some dick makes all the sense in the world and even if the guy has never had a single thought about it before. I've been of a mind to think that for such guys, turning to men is "better than no sex at all" and is better than jerking themselves off.
I don’t get it either, but here I am at 55. Never would have thought I would think that

[Johnyonenut]

Well guys, maybe at 72 its not too late for.me. Still curious to suck and bottom.

[tastessogood]

Never too late to discover the fun of sucking cocks.

[new day]

For me, I think sex with a man came as an evolution. I had done most anything I could with a woman and continue to enjoy those things a lot at home. Around the age of 40 I began to have thoughts about bisexuality. This is very much on the DL. At first I felt weird about having these thoughts. As time went on, I learned from online sites like this that there was a large number of men (and I suspect women too), who think about same sex play. A lot of you have always been bi. For me, it was a journey from no interest, to having guilty thoughts, to learning how many people felt the same way and finally to acting on the thoughts. I still have very limited experience with men, but thoroughly enjoy the things I've done with a man. The ironic thing is that when I think about sex with a man, it also increases my desire for sex with a woman. My sex life at home has benefitted from the conversations I've had with men about sex and the couple of interactions I've had. I also have to agree with Cleves that once you've sucked a cock, you need to do it again. There is no other sexual experience quite like it. It may not be my absolute favorite, but it's near the top of my list of favorite sexual activities.

[bnicks122016]

I’m like a lot of others. I’m 58 now, had a couple of mm encounters in college then met my wife. I lost her 3 years ago but was faithful the entire time. About a year after she passed I started thinking about sex again, and it turned out most of it was with other men. Although I still get with women, I enjoy sex with men the most these days

[NakedInSeattle]

late in life with a wife that wanted to see me suck a cock...she loved gay porn and we were swingers...this one dude, whils fucking her, said he was bi...she jumped off him and said the magic words that changed me from straight to bi...SUCK HIM

[NakedInSeattle]

i did and she came immediatlely
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[Mike29]

late in life with a wife that wanted to see me suck a cock...she loved gay porn and we were swingers...this one dude, whils fucking her, said he was bi...she jumped off him and said the magic words that changed me from straight to bi...SUCK HIM

Swinger clubs are fun!

[SilkyHoseLover]

...she jumped off him and said the magic words that changed me from straight to bi...SUCK HIM
That's what I call 'Living the dream'... :bigrin:

[handheld61]

I am 74 and feel exactly the same, just haven't had the opurtunity!

[averagejoe33]

I am 74 and feel exactly the same, just haven't had the opurtunity!

I understand about the Haven't had the opportunity as I sucked some cock when I was younger, but never to get a load to swallow. Now that I want to suck to completion the opportunity hasn't came up. Looking at 68.

[nu2curious]

I don’t get it either, but here I am at 55. Never would have thought I would think that

One huge factor is getting a bit older inhibitions come down as well , later in life most guys know that playing with a friend presents far less complications than hooking up with the opposite sex. Now, when we couple what I just said with the fact that a guy knows how to please a cock then there's your winning combination.

[Modude]

One of "life's mysteries" is how and why guys get into their 50s, 60s, and even 70s and getting some dick makes all the sense in the world and even if the guy has never had a single thought about it before. I've been of a mind to think that for such guys, turning to men is "better than no sex at all" and is better than jerking themselves off.

I agree completely, I've been bi curious since my high school days, and at almost 60 I find myself thinking about MM sex almost constantly.
I love and think the world of my wife but her sex drive has dropped to nearly nothing compared to what it used to be, and at the same time I'm taking testosterone shots which tend to rev me up. And there's something about watching guys having MM sex that gets me super hot almost instantly. So while I'm not actively seeking a MM encounter ( yet ), if a decent looking and acting guy were to offer me a blowjob, I don't think I could get my pants down fast enough....

[blowbbud]

i did and she came immediatlely

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I wish we could all be as lucky as you with a wife that not only approves, but actively encourages and participates.

[happymouthandtongue]

I love my wife, but long ago, I decided that if she wasn’t willing to take care of my needs, I’d go elsewhere and not just with women, but with men.

[James000]

Well said

[cfr50s]

I started young and another guy sucked me off two days before I met my wife to be. She and I fucked like rabbits until I got transferred to Europe. Divorce followed quickly. We didn't see or hear from each other for 25 years. One day I decided to find her again, what I didn't know is she was looking for me also. When we connected I was in New England and she was in Florida. Three weeks later she was in New England with me packing up for my move to Florida. Once we got me settled in here, in bed one night we were having a very open conversation where she admitted she was bi and enjoyed eating pussy when the opportunity presented itself. My turn to speak and I told her I sucked cock now and then and asked what her opinion of that was? She amazed me when she said it was cool and she would willingly watch or join in if invited. She had already watched two guys and she could cum just watching. It took time but we finally found a regular guy we enjoyed together every weekend. The first woman we found to enjoy together was someone who contacted us right on this site. She was single and invited us over to her place for an evening of sex. It went on to my wife and I getting her two strapon's which she used on me alone and after our regular friend fucked me with the real thing, she would take over with a strapon. Both of us being bisexual made life so much easier and so much enjoyable.