Some bi guys get upset giving me head if I don't cum

[groove311]

I've always looved getting head. Problem is I can only cum once a week or less. This guy
was sucking me and he wanted me to cum in 5 minutes but I couldn't.

I don't care if I don't cum because I enjoy getting head very much.
A bi guy doesn't even need my permission to suck me. He can unzip me anytime.
Getting head is like the best thing in the world to me. Sometimes I want it all the time.

I feel a lot of pleasure getting sucked. I would want head 24/7 if given the opportunity.

Problem is I can only cum once a week or less. A few bi guys were upset I didn't cum so it discourages them giving me head.

It turns me on that I can make someone happy letting them suck me anytime they wish.
Why can't I find guys who can give me head if I don't cum all the time?

[pole_smoker]

Why can you only ejaculate once a week or less?

Since you can't cum. Start sucking men's dicks, fuck their asses, or get fucked.

Or go to a bath house or all male sex club, or public sex place and let ALL THE MENS suck you off!

"What I want to defend is the proposition that there is a whole body of experience within the existing promiscuity of faggots that (if accepted for the good that it is) is revolutionary …
"We need to be indiscriminate. No one should be denied love because they are old, ugly, fat, crippled, bruised, of the wrong race, color, creed, sex or country of origin. We need to copulate with anyone who requests our company; set aside all the false contraptions of being hard to get, unavailable—that is, costly on the capitalist market. We need to leave behind the whole mentality of measurement; it is a massive tool of social control. We all measure ourselves against some standard, find ourselves wanting, and feeling inferior, guilty, wrong, weak—in need of authority, direction, correction, ruling and enslavement."
— Charley Shively, “Indiscriminate Promiscuity as an Act of Revolution”, Gay Sunshine/Fag Rag (Joint Issue, Summer 1974).

[Browne]

Why are you orgasmically limited?


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[groove311]

Why are you orgasmically limited?


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I have to flex and tense my legs to cum so it takes me many days to recover. My legs get sore to a point they hurt because I am used to tense and flex my legs hard
to cum. A guy told me I need to get used to not flexing and tensing my legs when I cum. I recently started masturbating without flexing my legs but it's
very difficult to do so.

Someone said it might take me weeks or months to get used to the new style.

I googled about this and some people say it's normal to flex and tense both legs. Some get sore legs from it. For example, I can't cum
with my knees bent yet. I would have to flex and straighten my legs to cum. I get upset. I got used to this since I was a teenager.

[pole_smoker]

I have to flex and tense my legs to cum so it takes me many days to recover. My legs get sore to a point they hurt because I am used to tense and flex my legs hard
to cum. A guy told me I need to get used to not flexing and tensing my legs when I cum. I recently started masturbating without flexing my legs but it's
very difficult to do so.

Someone said it might take me weeks or months to get used to the new style.

I googled about this and some people say it's normal to flex and tense both legs. Some get sore legs from it. For example, I can't cum
with my knees bent yet. I would have to flex and straighten my legs to cum. I get upset. I got used to this since I was a teenager.
Huh? That makes no sense at all.

Even if you are into flexing, bending, and tensing both legs while you ejaculate that shouldn't make it so you can only ejaculate once a week or less.

[groove311]

Huh? That makes no sense at all.

Even if you are into flexing, bending, and tensing both legs while you ejaculate that shouldn't make it so you can only ejaculate once a week or less.

My legs get sore after 1 or 2 minutes of tensing, flexing legs. When that happens I have to stop and recover from the soreness. I guess you don't have
that problem.

[pole_smoker]

My legs get sore after 1 or 2 minutes of tensing, flexing legs. When that happens I have to stop and recover from the soreness. I guess you don't have
that problem.
Are you morbidly obese, out of shape, or do you have a bone disease?

[groove311]

Are you morbidly obese, out of shape, or do you have a bone disease?

5'7" 170. Back then I used to be 145 lbs for 3 years cos I used to run every other day 5-6 miles every week.
I believe my current BMI is 27 or so. According to BMI I should lose 15 lbs to be "normal weight"
I know I need to exercise and build
strength in my legs. I just don't do that anymore. I got lazy over the years.

How long will it take me to ejaculate without tensing/flexing my legs?

[pole_smoker]

5'7" 170. Back then I used to be 145 lbs for 3 years cos I used to run every other day 5-6 miles every week.
I believe my current BMI is 27 or so. According to BMI I should lose 15 lbs to be "normal weight"
I know I need to exercise and build
strength in my legs. I just don't do that anymore. I got lazy over the years.

How long will it take me to ejaculate without tensing/flexing my legs?
Talk to a doctor or medical professional there's something majorly wrong.

[Browne]

I have to flex and tense my legs to cum so it takes me many days to recover. My legs get sore to a point they hurt because I am used to tense and flex my legs hard
to cum. A guy told me I need to get used to not flexing and tensing my legs when I cum. I recently started masturbating without flexing my legs but it's
very difficult to do so.

Someone said it might take me weeks or months to get used to the new style.

I googled about this and some people say it's normal to flex and tense both legs. Some get sore legs from it. For example, I can't cum
with my knees bent yet. I would have to flex and straighten my legs to cum. I get upset. I got used to this since I was a teenager.

Yeah, I experience this to a much lesser degree sometimes. I imagine that a regular stretching and meditation or message routine can have a positive impact here. Have you tried yoga and if so what were the results?


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[tenni]

Groove
I don't know how old you are but our bodies change as we age. Younger guys can cum at the touch of a breeze sometimes. I don't think that it is all that unusual if a guy can not cum from oral as we are individuals. Even stroking can vary from guy to guy as to whether you will cum. Few guys can get all guys off and especially as you mature.

Do you use lube when you are going solo? That may help if you tend not to use lube all the time.

I suspect that the leg tensing is very normal when cuming. As has been posted, if it bothers you, you may want to visit a urologist on your family practioner's advice.

[charles-smythe]

I've always looved getting head. Problem is I can only cum once a week or less. This guy
was sucking me and he wanted me to cum in 5 minutes but I couldn't.

I don't care if I don't cum because I enjoy getting head very much.
A bi guy doesn't even need my permission to suck me. He can unzip me anytime.
Getting head is like the best thing in the world to me. Sometimes I want it all the time.

I feel a lot of pleasure getting sucked. I would want head 24/7 if given the opportunity.

Problem is I can only cum once a week or less. A few bi guys were upset I didn't cum so it discourages them giving me head.

It turns me on that I can make someone happy letting them suck me anytime they wish.
Why can't I find guys who can give me head if I don't cum all the time?


...half the fun of sucking is the cum...I'd be upset too...

[onthelose]

I don't care what your excuse is, if you take longer then 15 minutes to cum I'm on to the next cock. Some guys believe that crap thy see in porn vids.

[onthelose]

I forgot to say I think it is extremely rude to expect someone to suck you for hours without a happy ending. Not normal!!!!!

[pole_smoker]

I don't care what your excuse is, if you take longer then 15 minutes to cum I'm on to the next cock. Some guys believe that crap thy see in porn vids.
Some men like myself and my husband like oral sex that lasts for a very long period of time or hours.


But when I was single I would have women and men who wanted me to cum within 15-20 minutes of sucking my dick which I thought was a very short period of time but I did it since they wanted it like that.