Bottoms

[SEX_DREAMS]

Nice and slow or rough and a good hard pounding

[ALAbiguy]

Start nice and slow and gradually ramp it up to finish with a good hard pounding.

[curious44]

Nice and slow. I once had a long term lover who could put me in a zone with the way he fucked my ass. The world could have ended while he was in me and I wouldn't have noticed. The best ever. He would get a nice easy rhythm going that was magic. I loved rainy days. He was in the landscaping business. I knew he'd be home if it was raining and his wife would be at work. Or if we were at my office I'd bend over my desk after everybody else left. We often met for lunch. One time the conversation got so hot we went to a motel. I miss those days. Even now I still prefer to straddle the guy so I can control the rhythm, at least until I can trust him to take it easy. Pounding looks good in porn but it's not for me.

[OverNeath]

Yes to both..depends on partner and mood

[Lynn731]

My best friend and I started fucking each other when I was 15. I still love it.

[Realist]

I'm mostly versatile and have always wanted to be with other versatile lovers. However, I've been with a few total bottoms; most were men, but there was one female, too. She, like the men, got her thrills from pleasing others. At first, I felt like half of the relationship was missing.

Then, I realized that they received their pleasure in a different manner than I did. Slowly, I came to accept their idiosyncrasies. We are such varied beings...in our desires and pleasure...and I've grown to believe we can learn from each.

Still, I don't understand why they are the way they are, but can accept them.

[tommyswing]

I like to straddle at first if he's large. Slow at first then fast strokes, so hot.

[tommyswing]

I meant to say nothings hotter than to be bent over a table or desk and fucked with abandon

[cornholejoe]

bent over and start slow then in a few minutes put it to me and make me moan

[i_shoot_blanks]

Just wish I still could, but after radiation treatments my nether region is a little toooooo fragile.

[bigi56]

Slow and sweet is always more fun in my world. Probably doesn't make everyone's clock run on time, but it does for me.

[onewhocares]

I think that being a kind and considerate lover is key. I know I have been the receipient of a men who lover to play and caress and take from behind. When I am in my strap on it gives me such pleasure to slow, shyly and in gentle abandon arouse my partner. I have been in the hot, torrid throws of passion where a man takes, takes and then gives back. No two lovers are the same. Viva la difference. C'est vrai. Belle in Boston

[easilyused]

Once he's in, give it to me as rough as it can get. then, let the others(if there are any) take their turn. and by the way, love bareback!

[striker48192]

Nice and slow at first then hard and fast to the finish , DAMN i love it

[gotlek]

I have a popular trick to give extra pleasure i use with men.
When i bent over and have him in me, I start to squeeze my ass very hard and at the same time I move my ass 360 degree cycles, he loves it....

[callig77]

Like a few people on here already said, start off nice and slow, then work up the rhythm where it can turn into a hard pounding. I like it the same way when playing with toys ... nice and slow, then start pounding it in... or go to a bigger size! :-)

[12voltman59]

Start out a session doing it hard, fast and rough-but finish by "taking the long slow ride home"

[bi4asplay]

I like to start out with a lot of foreplay. Touching, fingering, rimming. It gest me so hot and ready that when the head is against it I can almost pull it in. Start out doggie as it is the easiest to take it in. Finish up with me astraddle him where I control the tempo and depth. This is also where I can show my talent to be able to milk him.

[shyfellow]

Mmmmmmm. That's sounds so hot.

[olmizzou42]

The guy who did it best to me is a real ass lover. He uses his lips and tongue on my asshole as if he were eating pussy, works me open with lubed fingers, then slowly slides his cock in. Once the head is past the sphincter he strokes with increasing rhythm until he cums and by that time my cock is spurting too. The only drawback is his small cock. I would love to be impaled by a big one!

[NjbiGuy01]

Start nice and slow and gradually ramp it up to finish with a good hard pounding.

Absolutely !

[Gearbox]

The guy who did it best to me is a real ass lover. He uses his lips and tongue on my asshole as if he were eating pussy, works me open with lubed fingers, then slowly slides his cock in. Once the head is past the sphincter he strokes with increasing rhythm until he cums and by that time my cock is spurting too. The only drawback is his small cock. I would love to be impaled by a big one!
You've confused me there.:confused:
How is his small cock a drawback if he makes you cum with it?

[i_shoot_blanks]

First one in me was rather small and the guy knew what he was doing, slow and easy. Since then I have had a few larger, even an eight incher. If I could do it again, I would definitely prefer the smaller.

[sunshinmeet]

I meant to say nothings hotter than to be bent over a table or desk and fucked with abandon
What is it about fucking on a desk makes it so hot? It's a fantasy of mine, too. Did it just once. I prefer nice and slow since I'm delicate there.

[onewhocares]

It does seem a bit odd that I am the only WOMAN who has commented on this thread. There HAS to be more women who enjoy sharing this most initmate pleasure with their lovers. Belle

[mikeyd270]

I like it nice and slow until you get it all the way in then my ass belongs to you. Pound it hard and deep.

[Tatuaje]

Wow. Depends on the partner and circumstances. A lover who tears down your shorts, bends you over and ravishes you hard and quick can be as enjoyable as a lover who slowly and methodically finesses your body to climax.

[goodtimr]

I like it nice and slow so I can feel him tense up in me before he shoots his monster load in me.I love to feel his cum running down my crack and all over my balls.I make him hurry to get washed up so I can suck him hard so I can get another load in me.When he is done with me I am too tired to even say good night before he leaves.Not versatile at all.If it were not for us bottoms what would the tops do with their cocks? Jerk Off?

[Asspussy302]

I like slow. The feeling of a cock going in and out slowly is great! I can take a good pounding though. I was with one guy who liked to fuck fast and hard. I let him do it cause I wanted him to cum

[sailorashore]

I'm new enough at it that it has to start slowly. With patience and lots of lube, if my partner will just give me a little time to get used to him--start with just getting his crown past my sphincter, then work it in slowly, an inch at a time, till I have all of him in me to the hilt ! Then it's easy does it or a wild ass-pounding, whatever pleases him the most. I confess when he grabs my hips and pulls me onto him, and I can hear his passion and feel his balls slapping my ass, it takes me to another place altogether, and touches a part of me I've never known before, but that makes me deliriously happy. I just never knew that being on the receiving end could be so damn much fun. :impleased

[FunE1]

Depends on my mood.... The more foreplay BEFORE the fucking, the more likely I am to really get in to a good, hard, pounding assfuck. Sometimes, though, a slow, sensual fuck is just the right thing. --I do find that I tend to like the hard, pounding fucks at night, and the nice slow ones first thing in the morning, when i'm still a little dreamy and waking up.

[bottom's up]

i just had my pasty chef again about a week and a half ago...with him it's got to start out slow because of his size....but it speeds up after a few minutes

[scapegoat1987]

I don't bottom often, but when I do...fast and rough.

[ErosUrge]

well it all depends...but usually, I like to start nice and slow because sometimes I need the pace to be that way in order to adjust...once I have, my ass is all yours baby!...that is, until I cum. Once that happens, I'm pretty much not interested and would prefer nothing or no one be inside me...important we cum at the same time or you first.
Then at other times, I am ripe and ready to be ridden.....if I have gotten turned on from foreplay and especially if I've been rimmed for a period of time (not just a few licks but for a while),I open right up and you'll slide right in...fuck me fuck me fuck me....oh yessss.

[smokindeist]

I've only had one encounter with a man and I bottomed for him. He started slow and worked his way up to a good pounding. Perhaps more experience will show me more of what I like. I think it'd be nice to top. I also believe that I'm leaning to 'verse or verse' leaning to bottom. (I'm not sure what is the proper term for the latter--if there is one.)

[smokindeist]

You're basically saying that would want someone to be more engaged with the foreplay and sex? ;) Yeah, I can easily see where it would not be particularly fun if the guy just laid there moaning for the bone. :(

I'm a bit more active than that. ;) I also like the feel of a cock in my ass so I'd certainly bottom again. :D

[bendover2]

Both. It depends on the guy, it depends on the moment...but both can be great

[bi_prepper_wa]

Any speed is fun, but would love to find a monster attached to a "Ram it in and pound me through the wall" type.

[~Joe~]

I like it to start of slow but to build up to a nice slap on the ass,
get deeper slowly and just tip oil over me and end up slapping me and doing me with some force
nothing better being taken.

[Dunmor]

slow, soft after foreplay, its soooo hot when your partner cums